Gifts for bridal party, and other special people?

My two younger brothers (10 and 14) are in my September wedding. My fiance and I don't want to give them some silly trinket that they won't use, and arn't at the age for. I know that they really want an XBOX 360 though, would that be appropriate?





For my flower girl, I wanted to get her jewelry, (pearl earings and pearl bracelet) but also wanted to put together a girly lil basket thing with toys that she would like, is that ok?





For my maid of honour and bridesmaids, I'm stuck. I wanted to get their jewelry, but I would also like to get them something else. I've already given them engraved things with their names for birthdays etc, so that's not gonna work.





Also, my aunt is making my flower girl dress, it's absolutely gorgeous btw, :P ... I'd like to get her something special, jewelry is out of the question though, she's got tons, more expensive than I could ever buy her anyways. Just something sweet, something to say thank you. Any ideas would be terrific.





Thanks!! :)

Gifts for bridal party, and other special people?
If you get your brothers a 360, I want to be able to see them kiss your feet! That's extremely generous. Your idea for the flower girl is great. When my son was a ring bearer he was given a huge Tonka!


I got my bridesmaids silver heart lockets, so they could wear them for the wedding.


For your aunt, a spa gift certificate, maybe. Or a gift basket.
Reply:An XBox would be extremly appropriate if you can afford it. At one wedding I went to, since all the groomsmen met the groom through playing D%26amp;D he got them really nice gemstone dice sets.





I got all of my bridesmaid Willow Tree boxes. I found one for each that was appropriate to what gifts I felt they'd given me over the years (trust, kindness, etc) and each box was really very cute. If you're giving the gift to someone even slightly religious, their angel figures are really beautiful.
Reply:Liquor and chocolate.